Things change...

Things change...It would be stupid to expect them to always be the same...

We encounter change everyday. Sometimes the changes are so small that we don't even notice them or we choose to ignore them. But besides these, there are also big changes in our lives and from which unfortunately we cannot hide, ignore or pass by with a nod of ackowledgement.

Sometimes we choose to make a change as we hope that this will improve things. Sometimes we can foresee a change even if we don't like it as it is needed or the most complicated thing is when a change takes you by surprise and you have to adjust. Yes, changes always surprise us and not neccessarily in a good way...

People may have many ways of dealing with change: crying, hiting, death silence, refusal, pushing people away, eating chocolate, pick up a fight and so many others, but in the end it's only acceptance that we need to embrace. And it is something that we all have in common, the need of time...time to get used, to heal, to change yourself a bit...cause the most stupid and obvious thing we never want to admit is that any change will change us...